As we sat at St. Stanislaus Catholic Church where the Reverend Father David Dutra said many wonderful things about Uncle Gene. In his sermon he said something that made absolute sense to me, especially as years continue to pass since my mother passed. He said "we often grieve for those that have passed in fear that they suffered and mourn their pain, but in truth is us who are suffering and in pain. For the deceased have moved on and are now in a better place." I'd like to believe that is true, that my mom, Great Grandma Erma and Uncle Gene as well as all those who have passed before are all having one kick-ass party in heaven... Looking down and giving those left behind guidance to heal. It is true, those that are left behind are the ones suffering for those that have moved on. I still cry to this day and have a hard time dealing with my mom being gone and it has been over 10 years since her passing. I guess as a child that is something you never get over. I can't imagine nor do I ever want to know what it is like for a parent to have to bury their child. My heart aches for those who have lost. Nevertheless, we grieve and that is suppose to help us heal, right? I just wonder how long one is suppose to grieve before we are healed?
However unfortunate the day was, it is not often that I am able to capture a shot of the boys all dressed up and without any birdies in the shot (they sure look handsome)! Joey & Cody were pallbearers for Uncle Gene's funeral, Cody you did a great job! (Jordon tongue and all - LOL!)
I was also able to get a picture of Cody and Sara, they have grown so fast! It seems like yesterday that they were playing video games and running around in the sprinklers outside. Now they are in high school and trying to figure out who they are for themselves. We love you both tons and tons!
Till next time, remember to love like your hearts never been broken, laugh till your stomach aches and live like there's no tomorrow!
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